The end of an era …?

Are we referring to a Duke and his driving?

No, there is a closure at the foot of this piece (don’t scroll down!), but first, after eight and a half years, it was time to ‘let Harry go’.  It was obviously a bit sad to see him leave, but he’s off to new adventures, or maybe not-so-new because the person who bought him intends to live in him while house-hunting in France!

 

And then, for the New Year, ‘in with the new’, a VW camper van with 5 seats and a ‘pop-top’. He’s been named ‘Barney’ after the man I bought him off, and he takes up a lot less space on the drive!

– I can open the garage without moving the van, which is an immediate benefit, but the challenge of downsizing all the gear which came out of Harry to what will fit in Barney is almost as great as the house move, which is still ongoing.  Franky is still with me, with a ‘for sale’ sign in his window, but I haven’t done any serious advertising yet. He hasn’t said much … maybe he’s sulking. Maybe the days of chatty vehicles are over ….

Between Harry’s departure and Barney’s arrival came Christmas and New Year. I think we had a really good Christmas. The family (Sharlston branch) arrived on Christmas Eve in time to decorate the tree

 

before the traditional pancake-fest. (Traditional? Well, it has been in our families since the late sixties, so I think that qualifies!)

 

Suitable preparations were made for Santa Claus to visit – the essentials did indeed appear as if by magic, because I didn’t provide them!

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…  and on Christmas morning we all gathered in the living room at a fairly civilised 7.30 for Shannon to open the stocking’s contents.

 

 

Then they left me! Cinders in his scullery!

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No, they asked whether I would like to be left alone or whether I’d like one or more persons to stay and help. I chose the former and sent them off to their own church in Wakefield (it’s not that far away). Turkey was roasted, veg and trimmings prepared, yes, sprouts too at the last minute, none of this stewing them nonsense! and the table set festivicately:

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All in good time for everyone to have a good time!

But – what? no holly? There has to be a bit of green on the pudding ….

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(What I forgot, and no-one else noticed, is that after I’d had the garden cleared I’d planted a shrubbery down one side with a variegated holly bush at the centre!)

Then it was presents

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and on to the next event (which might become a tradition) – crumpets, cake, candles and crackers.

 

 

The next day, of course, was the Feast of Stephen (when Good King Wenceslas is supposed to have looked out) so Stephen-Keith prepared a feast, helped by Rachel.

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The family from Linthwaite had been invited to the Boxing Day Bash and Barbecue, which began with a walk to the playground just down the road, where some adults couldn’t keep off the children’s playthings.

 

 

Attempts to get the fire going on the patio were only partially successful, so we gave up on the idea that some items such as pigs in blankets might be cooked on top (there was either too much flame, or not enough!),

but folk had fun, and ate plenty.

There was another exchange of presents, some disco dancing and carols by candlelight, but the only pictures taken were videos and the screenshots I’ve made show faces which mustn’t be seen here.

Later, there was a hearty home-made cock-a-leekie soup for grown-ups, while small people chose more familiar tomato …..  what happened to Shannon’s portion will remain untold!

Family left on Thursday 27th, and after a few days on my own, I decided Cumbria was calling and found a bargain (I think) B & B for New Year’s Eve at the Scafell Hotel in Borrowdale. £75? I think that’s a bargain. I could have spent another £65 on the Gala Dinner-Dance, but I chose to eat in the adjacent bar, where I found agreeable company (from Yorkshire!) and was still able to enjoy the private fireworks display in the hotel garden after midnight.

New Year’s Day was beautifully sunny, and the only difficulty was driving into the sun  for most of the day. I began with the ‘far side’ of Derwentwater, then turned south past Thirlmere to the usual spot between Grasmere and Rydal Water. No question of not going whiffling through the Tulgey Wood (OK – wandering down through Penny Rock Wood if you’re not into ‘Jabberwocky’) to spend a few moments in meditative remembrance at the lakeside. No new photos; I have so many, but these may not have been used before and are suitably seasonal:

 

 

Two days later Rachel and I took Shannon to visit Florence (Kirkby) in Newcastle. We had a nice lunch (though I say it – I prepared it the day before) and I showed F. photos of 141, my August Adventure, and our Christmas. Before we left, Shannon sang some of her Christmas concert items. Now for the sting in the tail ….

Less than a week later, we learned that Florence had died in hospital, after several falls in the last few days. I’m so glad we made that visit …

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 Florence Kirkby MBE  1921 – 2019

A life-long friend.

R.I.P.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Last Days at Meltham … 11 days in Harry … First Days at 141.

 

August 29th 2017: Franky and I take both Thompson grandchildren for a day out, heading for the Heights Of Abraham, Matlock:

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After lunch, the main attraction was the playground (as usual) – but then, I wasn’t up for anything involving walking, such as the caves.

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Then they were introduced to Punch and Judy – a new experience which they entered into with enthusiasm, as eight year olds do. Oh, yes …

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The descent in the cable car gave a good view of the canoe slalom on the Derwent, though not in use just then:

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Early September, and it was time to pack up the flat in Meltham – Chris did most of it over several days. Surprising how much I had accumulated in 21 months! – also how the big chair had deteriorated; BHF wouldn’t take it back …  IMG_20170912_235449

I / we tried to leave the flat as we found it. Good enough to get the full deposit back, anyway.IMG_20170913_103544

I’d mistimed the handing in of the notice to leave the flat, being too optimistic as to when completion of the purchase of 141 Hall Cross Road might happen. Trying to save myself a month’s rent didn’t work – I had to do a double move, hiring two men and a van twice (we weren’t going to try moving a frigde-freezer down the stairs ourselves!) and paying for an 11-day stay on a caravan park. Chris gave my stuff house room – basement room, really (more stairs, though the freezer stayed in his kitchen!) and Harry, Franky and I went to a little camping / caravaning site behind this pub above Marsden:IMG_20170925_104206

It wasn’t a bad place to be!: The view on opening Harry’s door each morning:IMG_20170923_093346

During that stay, there was a visit from Carol and Judi, who enjoyed a meal at the pub, and joined Chris and me for the G & S Society’s quiz evening. The timing meant I couldn’t offer accomodation, of course, but they found a suitable ‘Airbnb’ in Meltham. (No photos of any of that?!)

September 25th 2017: Completion! Chris came with me – and Harry – to get the keys to 141 and take possession. Armed with a borrowed sledge hammer, the first job was to knock out the gatepost between the double gates and the single one, to enable me to manoeuvre Harry onto the drive.

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Later that day Rachel came over and drove me back to the Carriage House to collect Franky. A few days later Chris took this photo of the three of us (look carefully!), apparently at the rainbow’s end!Hall Cross Rainbow (1)

At first, I had only the camping furniture brought in Harry, and I slept on the inflatable matresses which had been in the guest room at Meltham. After two days the men with the van brought the things from Chris’s basement and I had a bed to sleep in, but it was another week before the big load came up from Sussex, where it had been since April. At least this gave Rachel and Sean the chance to come over and do a bit of painting to ‘refresh’ the living room before:

Tuesday 3rd October: The BIG one! Rachel took the day off to come and supervise, and we were hoping that BHF would take away quite a lot of the now ‘surplus to requirements’ furniture. That didn’t work! The driver declined to take most of it, including the big chair, which was no surprise, but we were surprised that he wouldn’t take the mattress of the bed which I’d bought from them and seemed to us to be in the same condition! It was good to see Simon again – he was one of the two who had loaded the goods at Sunejo – but Mark, who should have driven a second, smaller van up had been taken ill and to hospital! Waiting till the next day for the second load wasn’t really an option as I had an all-day hospital appointment myself (bone scan) and anyway, my bed was on the second van … so another driver was found and they arrived at 8pm.

Rachel had a plan to ensure that the living room was ‘habitable’ that evening, and that I had a bedroom to sleep in. Well, the living room looks OK …

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But there wasn’t going to be much use of the dining table for a day or two!

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The plan for my bedroom came good:DSCN3939.JPG

I was expecting the first guest within three days, so the guest room was … accessible:DSCN3943

But bedroom 3 isn’t – and won’t be for some time!:DSCN3944

Experimenting with sitting round the dining table showed that – as some had suspected – putting the sideboard (bought in Mirepoix) in the kitchen-dining room was a mistake, so next time Rachel and Chris were both here, they moved it into the living room: DSCN3951

and on Tuesday 24th October we had the first four person meal round the table*.DSCN3952*This table has history! First, as far as I know, it was in my grandparents’ house in Sale – ‘Milton Cottage’, but no cottage in fact – a big town house, now no longer there. Then it went to my cousins’ (I think), in Wardle Road, also in Sale, and from there to my parents’ in Felsted, Essex. When Mum came to live in Cumbria, Philip and Christine gave the table houseroom, but when they left Sydenham, they no longer had room for it. I said ‘hold on to it’ and made having space for it a criterion in choosing the house in France… Those chairs have been part of my family longer than I have, too!

Rachel and Chris have been a great help in all this – Chris is here several days each week, just emptying boxes and repacking and taking away the ‘let it go’ items which I just don’t want or haven’t room for. In the middle of it all I had a urinary infection involving visits to A & E two evenings running (if you phone 111 that’s the advice you get!). Michelle took me the first time, and Rachel came the second evening; it cleared up after about three days. We haven’t touched the garage or the shed yet, nor the upstairs rooms, but it’s good to be able to scan and print documents for myself, and to relax on that sofa with its footboards – I’ve been without that for nearly two years!DSCN3938.JPG(The colours aren’t quite right – the walls are more pale yellow than pink!)

…. I’d better do some more washing up of the lastest ‘finds’ from the boxes …

Harry Goes To Wales

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Harry!

Ja?

Tell Franky about our holiday.

What? That little grey car? He will not understand. He is like Lady Lucy – he does not speak well English.

Yes, he does! He’s more English than you are. … Just a bit – Yorkshire. Franky!

Yes, Boss?

Tell Harry if you don’t understand him, OK?

Right-o, Boss.

Who is ‘Boss’?

I am – get on with it.

In Ordnung.

What’s he on about?

Harry was right -maybe I shouldn’t have started this …

So – we leave Meltham Monday 31st July. We travel well. We go through sunshine and showers and arrive at Cringoed Caravan Park (near Machinlleth) at about 4.30. We stopped for SKT to have ‘brunch’ at Birch services.

Who is SKT?

I am!

Keep yer whiskers on!

I may have raised this before – is sausage, egg, beans and chips a ‘brunch’?

That know I not.

What?

I do not know this.

I do – it aint.

Next day – Tuesday, we go into Machinlleth, where SKT hopes to find an old friend.

Yes, John Charlesworth, an artist, used to live opposite us in Bolton, but we lost touch after they moved. I found out on the web that he had a studio in Machinlleth, and so he did – but a nice lady at the Museum of Modern Art (MOMA) told me he’d moved to Shrewsbury. She made a phone call to see if a colleague had a contact number, but no.

You were lucky to get this information between showers!

Yes – showers interspersed with perods of continuous rain. We drove to Aberystwyth (because it was there, I suppose!) and back to Cringoed.

Do I tell this or do you?

Sorry! – Carry on.

Wednesday 2nd August – we drive back through Mach. to Aber. where SKT has breakfast at Morrison’s, and gets cross about having paid too much for diesel fuel on the way –

I didn’t know we were going to end up at Morrison’s!

– and so on to Whitewell Holiday Park near Tenby, where are already Rachel, Sean, Becky and Shannon with the caravan. We park on the grass some way away and opposite them. Then begins the rain and the wind.

And when there was no rain and wind, there was wind and rain. On Thursday (3rd) the family go off to visit a farm / theme park and I have a lazy day, joining the family for supper when they come back.

And on Friday morning, a couple with a caravan next to the family’s – a German couple as it happens – move away and we move across to occupy that pitch. This makes movement from caravan to me much easier, and safer for Shannon who likes to come and visit quite frequently, especially first thing in the morning, but until now this has involved crossing the ‘road’ between us.

By now we have SUNSHINE! We pack picnics and beach stuff into the big car –

What big car?

Sean’s big car – the one they tow the caravan with, and we head for Coppet Hall Beach:

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(Our camp is centre left with the red shelter and the striped windbreak.)

First, dig out your pool:

 

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Then, make a channel and dam the stream and let the pool fill up till it overflows! Shannon is the third generation to learn this game on this same beach – though Rachel says she thinks she and Chris played it first in Devon or Cornwall.

Even I have a little swim (in the sea) and thanks to Becky for staying with me. Later Shannon and I watch the boats in Saundersfoot harbour …

… while the others go shopping and come back with fish n chips.

Back at Whitewell, some hardy folk like to sit out between the vans as it gets dark – even if it means wrapping up for warmth:

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This was a GOOD DAY … but it had unfortunate consequences ….

Saturday, 5th August: SUNSTROKE! Or if not sunstroke, sun induced migraine, but with the pain in an unusual place and a very hot forehead. When packing beach stuff into the big car, I forgot to include a hat – even though it was on my checklist –

Dumkopf!

What’s ee say?

He called me a twit.

What, like dick-‘ead?

Exactly.

Eee – I like im!

– then I sat for hours in the sun in one place on that beach. … So on Saturday the family go to visit Caldey Island (which I wasn’t plannng to do anyway) and any thoughts I had of sitting outside or doing a bit of ‘housekeeping’ are forgotten as I lie in Harry most of the day nursing me ‘ead. But it gets better enough for me to stick to the plan and prepare supper for the others ready for when they get back. (Potato Bolognaise – sounds odd, but try it sometime!)

After supper I get the guitar out and have a little singalong. Rachel said people wouldn’t gather round or stop, but I said they do in France, so why not try it and see. What was interesting was that although some folk did comment as they went by, apparently, that it was nice to hear, it was a Polish family – well, mother and daughters, dad being busy with the barbecue – who brought some drinks and sat down for a while.

Sunday is disappointing. The weather has turned nasty again, and the seafood restaurant I’d noticed on the harbour side in Saundersfoot, and invited everyone to have lunch at, proved less than wonderful. (No children’s menu, said they would do a small portion but didn’t, didn’t take cards, but didn’t tell us that when we booked, and presented a bill for six meals when we’d had only five – and one of them for a four-year-old paying full price!)

After coffee and dessert at a different establishment, two fellas return to the vans, while the three lasses go back to the beach to swim in the rain! Well, it’s all wet, I suppose…

Monday (7th) is our moving day. We had not planned to stay with the family all the time and SKT wanted to see the Gower, which before he never visited –

D’yer mean he’d never bin there before, like?

Like what?

It’s just an idiom.

That’s rude.

No, it’s not – carry on, Harry.

SKT and I are ready to leave before the Tuggers appear –

Tuggers?

It’s a nickname Motorhomers use for Caravaners.

– but they come round in time to help remove the levellers. Then we wave goodbye and leave Whitewell. SKT is hoping to find a place for breakfast along the way, but there is nowhere evident till we leave the motoroway near Swansea. So here he has an early lunch from Burger King! Soon we stop again at a big Tesco’s and he buys some cough medicine.

Yes, a harsh and painful cough has been bothering me all morning.

And then is a short drive along the Gower Peninsular to Pitton Cross, just before Rhossili.

Pitton Cross Caravan Park is well away the best site of the three we’ve been on during this trip. (Though the showers were better at Cringoed) There’s a good shop, (though no honey – they say the can’t get it, so a rum toddy for the cough has to wait) and even a sea view from our pitch, so next morning, the weather being fine and warm, it’s cooked breakfast outside:8th August Breakfast.JPGThen we go exploring. Beach-side car parks in the Gower are motorhome friendly – no height limiters – but overnight parking is forbidden. So we start at Rhossili, which some describe as the finest beach in Britain:

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But we do not stay here – too much walk from car park to beach, down steep path. So we look at Horton:

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Sehr schön. Very  nice, but I do not see this as from the car park there is a view only of the dunes. SKT has a little picnic and we move on. Eventually we find Oxwich. (We twice miss the turning as the sign is completely buried in the hedge!)

But perseverance is rewarded, because Oxwich is THE ideal spot for a day at the beach with a motorhome! (In spite of the £6 access fee.)

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You’re almost on the beach, you can set up ‘camp’ or sit near your van, you can cook, picnic or barbecue, and you have your changing facilities, with a hot shower if you want it, right there. Moreover, there’s a snack bar on site and a toilet block, ‘traditional’, but clean and acceptable, if you don’t want to use your onboard facilities.

Meanwhile, the family had come down to visit the Gower Heritage Centre, only 15 minutes away, so they came to join me – only £3 for them and the big car!

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We had tea / coffee, some played on the beach and some went in the water:

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(The red dot upper centre is Rachel, and the white dot to her right is Becky’s head!)

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They have a long drive back to Whitewell.

And we have a short one back to Pitton Cross, where, having found some honey at the shop in the village, SKT is able to treat his cough with his rum toddy, and for the second evening, there is a remarkable sunset:

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Wednesday (9th August) is fine enough, but with more cloud, more wind, and much less warm. However, Oxwich is so appealing that we go back there. Here is something very British happening; folk have come to enjoy themselves, and they are determined this to do. They are … what do you say – cowarding? –

Cowering!

Ah, ja – they are cowering in their shelters and behind their windbreaks, wearing their anoraks, their fleecies, their hoodies, and that latest must-have accessory – the wetsuit. Occasionally some go down to the sea and swim a bit, but they do not stay long. SKT, he stays inside all day, watching other folk, doing his puzzles and looking at old photos on the computer, as well as taking one or two new ones:

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(Looking towards Three Cliffs Bay – accessible only on foot!)

On the way back to base, I ‘treat’ myself to a meal at the nearest pub. It’s adequate, not wonderful – not a treat!

Thursday 10th is fine and warm again, which is annoying in a way, because it is long drive home day. This weather yesterday would have been very good. We leave Pitton Cross at about 9.15 but go only a short distance to a garden centre where a cafe is doing breakfasts.

Not only doing breakfasts, but doing WELSH breakfasts, so as well as bacon, sausage, egg and mushrooms, I have lava bread and cockles! And with the best, simply made, cup of coffee just like at home – I donta wanta my ‘personal barista’ who maika me waita too long and costa megabucks. In fact, this was the best meal out of the whole trip – and the best value.

So SKT is now ready to drive home with only two more stops – one for the necessary, and one for ice cream. Parts of the journey are slow – M42, M6, Oldham – but we arrive at Helme Park at about 6.45, more or less as expected.

So, that were a good do, eh, Boss?

It were, aye. One or two disappointments like not finding John and only a couple of really fine days, but the Gower is certainly worth another visit, and there were two splendid sunsets:

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PS: In case you hadn’t noticed (in the media) Saundersfoot beach is up for sale … quarter of a million, anyone?

 

 

 

 

A Day Out, a Barbecue and a Birthday.

Grandson S had asked for ‘a day out with Grandad’ as a treat, and June 17th (2017) was a really fine day, so we piled furniture and a picnic into Franky and set off for Derbyshire – the Peak District boundary is only just up the hill from Meltham. Down through Glossop and over the Snake Pass brought us alongside the Derwent and Ladybower reservoirs, which gave opportunity to give a little history lesson about the Dambusters, which was topical. There was a picnic site shown on the map – and signed – near the reservoir, but we couldn’t find it, so we drove on through Castleton and picnicked under Mam Tor:

 

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Grandson decided he wanted to see the Blue John mine and caves; I had suggested one of the caves and was thinking of Treak Cliff, but really I had forgotten what was involved. See the steps? About 220 of them! Although I did keep up with the party, using the handrail and my stick, this was not a good idea! The unrepaired hip has been extra troublesome ever since. I have an appointment to see the ‘Hippy Man’ in September.

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Father’s day, June 18th. Weather still fine and sunny, so the lunch at Oakleigh Close was a barbecue:

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Later in the afternoon, there was fun (for some) in the paddling pool. (I have doubts about this picture – it shows a bit too much of the side effects of hormone treatment!):

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Sitting like that wasn’t comfortable for long, so an alternative was found:

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Throwing water in Gaia’s (Grandad’s) face was great fun – retaliation wasn’t received with equal merriment!

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Saturday July 15th: Shannon is four years old! Our first job – mine and Franky’s –

I were wondering when I was getten a word, like. It were me as took you and that lad over tut Peak District, tha knows. 

Of course we know – I said so in the first paragraph, and you’re in the photo of the picnic spot. It was a great drive – don’t get huffy. Tell us about Shannon’s birthday.

Aye, well, fust up, we had to go into Wakefield to pick up a friend –

Vik.

– and her little lass –

Rosie.

Shurrup!

Just ‘splaining.

– off the train from down south –

London.

But tha kept goin round in circles and nearly made us late.

No, I didn’t – just needed to do a bit of birthday related shopping, but getting back to the station – we were there in good time at first – was a bit tricky with the traffic lights and the one-way system. Anyway, this picture is of Rosie and Shannon the next day:

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Aye, well, once we’d packed them in, alongside all your clutter –

What? I’d taken most of it out!

Hmmm …

That’s my line.

Once all in, we went up to that house where Big Harry is and you all disappeared round t’ back.

Where the garden was set out in full party mode:

Party Time!

In fact, it was full of children and parents – mostly mums – as well. The slide was the special parental present two years ago; this year’s was the trampoline in the background. There was a lot of feeding going on, as well as playing – then it was time for CAKE!:

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Or several cakes, really, but only one big chocolatey one in the shape of a 4, with CANDLES on ….

“HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU …..”

                         Birthday Girl

Mainly Memories …

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More about Grasmere later. But first, Franky!

Yes, Boss?

You’ve been in trouble.

‘Ave I?

Well, I have, thanks to you.

What, me clutch and that?

‘That’ being your flywheel, aye.

Aye, well. It were them slow drives to Leeds to get you better – jiggered me clutch an all. At least you realised it were wrong, like, before we ‘ad a total breakdown.

Yes, and I had a nice new ‘Cactus’ as a courtesy car from the Citroën dealer, but you cost me a lot of money I didn’t really have.

Sos, like. Weren’t my fault.

Hmmm. …..  He’s right, some of the drives to Leeds were very slow and crawly. But one of the amazing features of the Bexley Wing at St. James’ Hospital (the cancer centre) is the hotel on the 7th floor. This is free to patients, and is a splendid facility – no breakfast available up there, but there is on the ground floor, though I didn’t want it the twice I stayed there, because the reason for staying was the very early appointment the next morning. The views from the rooms are remarkable:

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though on the first occasion I couldn’t find how to raise the venetian blinds, which were between the layers of the double glazing, so taking photos was tricky.

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On the second occasion my room was on the other side of the building – and no blinds!

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But the important thing is that the treatment is over, and apparently successful –

No more daily trips to and from Leeds, then? Well, I’m glad of that!

You and me both, Franky, lad. I think all readers of this will already know about the bell ringing ceremony on completion of treatment:

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After lunch together at the Golcar Lily, Chris had another commitment that afternoon, but after dropping him off at 730, Manchester Road, Rachel and I went the short distance to ‘Rudi’s’ and indulged in a celebratory helping of ‘Kaffee und Kuchen’. We should really have had one portion between us! …

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Er, no – that wasn’t the whole portion, but just one slice of that 6-tiered monster was too much!

Leaving Manchester aside for a moment, the next family event was school sports day for Chris’s two, a joint event where their school, Wellhouse, join with another, Clough Head, and compete, not school against school, but jointly in their houses, Earth, Fire, Air and Water. Grandad’s taxi –

Is that me?

Aye, it is an’ all. – was very useful in getting the children up the hill in the morning, after which Chris and I had breakfast, then we went back for the sports in the afternoon and took them back home afterwards. Having been reluctant to take part in previous years, S & N were both keen participants, S. being part of a winning relay team, and coming second in his year’s ‘cross country’ race (i.e. twice round the field). Their House, Fire, was second overall, and it was a really enjoyable occasion, helped, of course, by fine weather, good, but relaxed organisation, and a good-humoured competitive spirit. Can you imagine a better setting for such an event – surrounded by fields and hills? –

 

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Well, that was Wednesday, 24th May, less than 48 hours after the awful event in Manchester. I felt I had to go, perhaps because, as a teenager in the early sixties, I spent many an evening in Manchester – back then, if you wanted to see the big films soon after they were released, you had to go to the cities; it could take months for them to reach a town like Accrington. And although I wasn’t into clubs or concerts (weird!) I was into G & S, so whenever the D’Oyly Carte were at the Opera House several visits were a must, some with parents, others alone or with friends. The greatest danger, as far as I can remember, was the risk of misjudging crossing the road (one-way streets in big cities could be confusing to a former Essex boy brought up with the ‘kerb drill’.) So taking a few red and white roses from Yorkshire to Lancashire, I took the tram from Oldham and tried to find St. Anne’s Square. I don’t think I was given best advice as to how to get round the closure of part of the line, but at Piccadilly, some nice officials told me I didn’t need a ticket for the next ride saying, with a nod to the roses, ‘you’re here for the right reason’. But I still had a long walk, and the unrepaired hip didn’t like it!

Eventually arriving at the ‘Church’ end of the square, I had to find a way through the mass of world-wide media to get to the tributes. But no-one minded, in fact someone asked if I wanted to get through and made space for me.

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Most people had approached from the other side, where there were fewer cameras and vans:

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The candle – in the little ramekin dish – was burning when I left it –

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and I hope one or two folk read my three quotations before my card got buried:

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Remembrance of a different kind at the weekend. I’m a bit reluctant to admit that I got the date wrong! I’d made plans to be in Grasmere on the 28th, but, of course, it should have been the 27th! However, in the event, it turned out to be a happy error, since the 27th was very wet, and I probably wouldn’t have got to the lakeside at all. The 28th was sunny, but not too hot, and very busy, so I made several ‘passes’, hoping to find parking near the lake, and it was late afternoon before I did. But we’d driven past Thirlmere and down St. John’s, as well as back to Ambleside for an Ice Cream at Hayes.

So that’s why we kept gannin up and down same bit o’ road – tha wor lookin for a space to park.

I wor. Yes, I was. Then it was down to the ‘special’ bit of beach:

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But ‘funny’ things began to happen; arriving at the beach, there was a fork lying beside the water’s edge. Why ‘funny’? Well, one day, years back, when walking up Mosedale with Hilde and family, Carol spotted a fork in the grass at the side of the road. Being Carol, of course, she picked it up and took it home. So what did  I do with this one? Brought it home, of course …

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I’d heard a piece on radio about the properties of the herb rosemary. Apparently, scientists are finding that there is some evidence for the folklore (mentioned in Shakespeare) that rosemary is ‘for remembrance’. I have some rosemary  on my doorstep, so I thought I’d bring a sprig. Then I thought I’d lost it, so I bought some more at Morrison’s in Kendal (I was staying at an excellent Guest House in Oxenholme – The Glen – highly recommended.) Then I found the original bit:

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So I floated them on the water – ‘for remembrance’:

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I settled down to do a puzzle, choosing a variation of sudoku – the idoku which Carol used to do as her special one – and at the left hand side of the puzzle page in the ‘i’ there’s the ‘Daily Recipe’; that day’s recipe just happened to be ‘Krema Kataluna’, a type of Crème Brulée which is on the desert menu of most restaurants in Languedoc – especially those areas nearest the Spanish border …. funny that.

Falling off my chair wasn’t funny! Just trying to get comfortable, using my fleecy jacket as a cushion, I leaned a little too far to the left, and over we went! I landed on the repaired hip, and for a moment, I thought I was in trouble … but it seems there’s no harm done.

The beach under Loughrigg Fell has memories, too: when Rachel was little, maybe 9 or 10, we were picnicking there and a seagull came and stole her sandwich out of her hand! She let out a very irritated ‘Hey!’

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This is the path back to Franky: you’ve seen it before, nicknamed the ‘Tulgey Wood” (It is very tulgey.) It’s taken me years to remember its real name: Penny Rock Wood. But you wouldn’t get a Jabberwock whiffling through Penny Rock Wood, would you? Naa …

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Monday was wet n ‘orrible, weather-wise, but remembering the family adage that ‘the Lake District has a character of it’s own in the rain’, and after the excellent breakfast provided at The Glen, we set off up Kirkstone Pass, down past Brotherswater and through Patterdale and Glenridding – where the work is still ongoing following the floods of December 2015 / January 2016 – past Ullswater, and over the ‘temporary’ bridge at Pooley. Still ‘remembering’, and taking the scenic route, we went over Celleron and down to Askham, then to Helton, and paused to take a through-the-window photo of the spot at Helton where, after a picnic with Philip and Family, Rachel, Chris and I set off on the ‘Keswick Chips’ of all Lakeland walks – the one compared with which all other walks would have some redeeming features. But there was – as we kept telling each other during five miles of trudging through the heather – a great view of Ullswater when we got to the top of Loadpot Hill.

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The scenic drive was completed by driving up through Rosgill to Shap, where we joined the motorway. The weather didn’t improve, and there was the added challenge of fog, or low cloud as we crossed the Pennines, and more as we came over from Marsden to Meltham.

Well done, Franky – but don’t let’s be having any more big repair bills.

He’s gonna go on about that for ever …. weren’t my fault …

The Removal from Sonnac, Part Four – The Journey Home.

 

This photo should have been in the last chapter. The evening meal in Mirepoix was mentioned, but the photo didn’t get inserted. Michel and Diana are sitting diagonally opposite each other; the man raising his glas is their friend, Hugh:

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Harry?

Ja?

Do you want to do it?

What?

Write the diary.

Why?

Dunno – I thought you might like to.

So … Aber nein – you do it; I will just, what you say, chip in, when I will.

OK. So it’s day 16, Good Friday, 14th April, and we’re leaving Sonnac at 1.50pm.

You did not seem very sad.

No, I wasn’t. I’d been looking forward to it.

In fact, you drove along saying ‘Bye-Bye’ to everything and everywhere.

I did. ‘Bye-Bye, Camplimoux; Bye-bye, Camon,’ and even, (join in everyone!) ‘Bye-bye, La BASTIDE de BOUSignac!’ And, of course, the Hers, which, incidentally, was not much more than a lickle trickle compared with the full river of nearly two weeks ago. The ‘Piebald Pyrenees’ were different, too, with much more black showing through the snow.

Good Friday is not a public Holiday in France, so I overshot the motorway in Pamiers to go to the Orange shop –

You went to buy oranges?

No, you daft goose, Orange, capital O. I’d been told on the phone that I was NOT to leave the IT equipment in the house, but to take it (livebox and TV decoder) to an Orange shop. That took longer than you’d think! Then back round the roundabout to Intermarché’s fuel station, and so with a full tank and a seriously cluttered interior, not to mention a full garage, with the bed at its highest, we headed north, but only as far as the first aire for a quick, late lunch – just a sandwich. (It was already 3.30) Then the serious travelling began …

However, at Aire Jardin des Causses du Lot I had to stop for a rest, but in the end we did make 351 kms to arrive at the old favourite, Porte de Correze, at 8.30. Supper from a tin, and a good night’s sleep – even on a service area!

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Ja; sehr schön.

Day 17, Saturday 15th April. Porte de Correze doesn’t only have scenery and pleasant facilities, but it has an excellent gift shop, with lots of local produce and a wide range of possibilities for presents. Maybe that’s an advantage of not charging for parking – folk go in and spend! So I did that, and bought a croissant for breakfast as well, but drove on the 20kms (15 minutes) needed to get to that other favourite, Briance Ligoure, before enjoying it:

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Hey! Why is here little Sally?

Well, if you remember the weather was poor, – cold and showery – on April 15th, so I searched for an earlier photo, and thought a reminder of the ‘old’ days might be fun.

Na, gut.

Of course, I didn’t get out to enjoy my café-croissant at a picnic table! That would have been taking nostalgia a bit too far!

I have table, where you often enjoy many things.

I know – I love it. Anyway, another short hop –

I don’t hop!

This is taking ‘chipping in’ too far! Another short drive got us to J 37, the usual fill-up point at the Centre Commercial just off the motorway. But something had changed – there had always been height limiters approaching the petrol station, and we’d always passed under them, but they used to have ‘dangly-jangly’ bits on them, which weren’t there any more, and they looked lower than before. They were signed at 3m, and Harry is 2.7, but that’s without the TV aerial. Also, there were no vehicles of similar height already on the forecourt, though it was busy. I didn’t want to risk it, but I parked up and went to do some shopping – another place undergoing major reconstruction, then I had to use the SatNav to find the next nearby fuel station, which gave me an interesting ride – not a hop! – round the outskirts of  Limoges – so interesting, in fact, that Carol would have loved it when we passed one verge covered in wild orchids! (She’d have wanted me to stop dead and let her out to take photos – on a ring road!)

I’d allowed an extra day for this journey, to give time to visit Montlouis and Vouvray in the Loire valley, so somewhere between Limoges and Orléans I left the motorway –

So also did I –

WE left the motorway, and since I realised it was probably going to be too late for wine-tasting that evening, which may or may not have been a good decision, we headed for a camp site I’d found in the guide book. This was in the village, or small town, of Salbris, and we got dead lucky – a lovely little lakeside site, with a warm welcome and nice facilities, even a water tap at the pitch. (250 kms driven that day.)

It was remarkably unbusy for Easter weekend. In summer there would be a swimming pool and a bar-restaurant, but never mind, a tin of Cassoulet made a nice enough supper. (It’s a speciality from Castelnaudary, and having never tried it when living nearby, I thought I should before leaving. …. It won’t be on the ‘must have that again’ list. It consists mainly of sausage, other meat and beans.)

Day 18. Sunday 16th (Easter Day) I wasn’t in a hurry to get away that morning, so I took my time using the campsite facilities to attend to Harry’s “water” jobs, and it was 11.25 before we moved off site. Approaching from the south, it made sense to head for Montlouis first (I wish I knew how to put maps on here …). Getting to the town was no problem, but the centre stands high above the river (the Loire) where the wine centres are, and finding the way down was a nightmare! –

Yes, you drove round in the circles, no?

Well, we certainly did do one or two streets –

Very narrow streets!

– we did one or two very narrow streets more than once, but this was because of road works and closures. And if we did drive through a pedestrianised area (it certainly looked like one) it was because I couldn’t find any other way. Still, finally we did get down –

Very steeply down!

– to the riverside and on to a familiar road with a number of wine tasting / selling outlets – BUT! Big disappointment – everywhere was closed! I was assuming that there would be lots of holiday traffic to attract, but apparently not, or maybe strict Sunday laws were in force.

So we moved on to Tours, as we had to to cross the river. After a brief lunch stop – at Harry’s table – on to Vouvray, but fearing the situation would be the same as in Montlouis. But no – maybe not all, but several wine centres were open. I only needed one anyway. Why the North and South banks of the Loire were different with regard to Easter Day opening, I didn’t find out, perhaps the river is the boundary between départements or other administrative areas, but anyway, loaded with 2 six-bottle boxes of still and pétillant (bubbles!), and nowhere to put them, we headed back to Tours to join the motorway to drive north via Le Mans and Rouen.

The rest of the day’s drive was uneventful, even Rouen was free-flowing, or ‘fluide’ as it says on the signs. The season was considerably advanced from just a fortnight before; most of the white blossom was faded or had dropped, but the cowslips were even more prolific. Rape fields and sections of gorse were brilliant yellow, but green was dominant.

I know I go on a bit about it, but I am still amazed by the variety and design of the service areas and lay-bys on French motorways. Pulling in to a previously unvisited layby south of Le Mans, the Aire des Croiselles, I found we were in a sort of mini nature reserve! In fact, the construction of this section of the A28 had been delayed till 2004 because of the habitat of the protected beetle, Osmoderma Eremita, (Hermit Beetle?) Why the French call it the Pique-Prune (Plum Stabber) I can’t work  out since it lives on dead wood, not plums, but this ‘rest area’ has a sector designed to provide habitat for it:

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However, there was still ground to cover, and we actually got as far as Baie de Somme before stopping for the night. It was 9pm and we’d done nearly 600 kms. The more scenic parking areas would have been out in the wind, and I wanted to be near the facilities, so I parked near the building, and since the restaurant was still open, I had a meal of chicken in white sauce with ratatouille and new potatoes, which was actually much nicer than it looked, having been on the counter for some time, I guess. I also used the wifi to book a ferry crossing for the next day.

Day 19. Monday 17th April Café-croissant for breakfast, and a check on the email, and, of course, a visit to the gift shop – like Porte de Correze, Baie de Somme has an irresistible selection, so a bit of shopping was unavoidable.

Since the break at Limoges, I’d been trying to exchange Harry’s spare gas bottle which was (is) empty. But I should have done it a long time ago – I’d left it too late! –

He called me the dumme Gans!

OK – chalk that one up to you. The petrol stations were all unattended (Easter Sunday / Monday) – pay by card at the pump, but no-one on hand to open the cages of gas bottles. But I didn’t give up – using satnav I found a small petrol station, open, just off the motorway in Calais, and the young man at the till was quite happy to get a bottle out for me – there were six bottles of the right type visible in the cage …. every one of them was empty! But we only found that out after I’d pulled loads of stuff out of Harry’s garage to get at the spare bottle, and spread it around his back wheel on the forecourt (the stuff, not the bottle)!! (There’s no-one to take the best photos!) I did give up! So I have no reserve gas. (The point is that the bottles in question, and the regulator that fits them, are French, or European, so to change to British ones will involve expense and leave me with two unreturnable bottles, one of them with gas in.)

Pleasant ferry crossing, and as we approached Dover (I’ve posted so many ‘White Cliffs’ photos over the years.) I texted the Offspring “The cliffs are very white, the sky is blue and white, and the sea is blue-green. The litter will be ‘orrible.”

I could leave it there, but there are two days to go before Harry gets ‘home’ (i.e. Wakefield) and I resume babysitting duties. We got to Porton Court (Surbiton) at 5pm, 269 kms driving from Baie de Somme, and a familiar yellow Corsa was guarding the most convenient visitor’s parking bay for Harry. Christine and Carol provided a nice evening meal and I found a bottle of Vouvray somewhere. (It wasn’t hard – the two boxes were – and are – still on the top step just inside Harry’s hab. door.)

Day 20. Tuesday 18th April  Harry had a rest day! I spent some time choosing a few – quite a few – of Philip’s clothes to keep, before the family decide what to do with the rest, then later Carol drove us out in the yellow Corsa to Richmond Park when we had a light lunch – fine enough for al fresco. I knew nothing about Richmond Park, although it’s the largest royal park in London, about 2,500 acres and home to over 600 deer (google it for more info).  From King Henry’s  Mound there’s a remarkable view, with an amazing long-distance sight of St. Paul’s through a well-kept gap in the hedges, trees and buildings all the way to central London:

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(I didn’t take that – I ‘borrowed’ it from a website) I took these – the first one points away from St. Paul’s and includes (the viewpoint diagram says) Heathrow and Windsor Castle:

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Then we went down into Kingston to do the return river trip to Richmond and back – a section of the river I hadn’t done before. This is approaching Teddington Lock:

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Back at Porton Court, Judi joined us, which was nice, before we went out for a very enjoyable Chinese meal. The restaurant we’d been to before was closed, so we tried a different one – I think it will stay on the list of options.

Final Day. Day 21. Wednesday 19 April Not a lot to report, really. On the road at 10 am, and took the M42, which enables a stop at Beaconsfield Services, where there’s a Weatherspoon’s for brunch, as well as avoiding any traffic problems around Watford and South Mimms. Then a bit of the A43 gets you to join the M1 at Northampton. No problems anywhere, and arrived at Oakleigh Close at 4.30. 355 kms from Porton Court.

Total round trip in these three weeks, 2336 miles – well done, Harry!

Lots of hard work, one big setback, one major job done, and some nice moments mixed in. I wish I could say ‘back to normal’, but radiotherapy starts tomorrow; return drives to Leeds (about one hour each way) every weekday for the next month …. but that’s the next story.

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(Photo by Judi on a previous visit.)

The Removal ….Part Two, Rachel and Shannon

Day 5, Monday 3rd April 2017 Started with the worrying discovery of an email from the purchaser of Sunejo, asking for a delay till June as he was ‘having trouble with the bank’. Actually, I can’t remember how and when I found that as either from the start or very soon there was no telephone or internet in the house. So phone calls had to be made to Orange by mobile phone asking them to sort it out. Eventually, the best they could undertake was to have it restored by Thursday evening! Not a lot of help!

When we arrived the night before, everything looked very depressing; the grass was overgrown, and the moles were back in force – worse than before as the molehills were right next to the terrace and very unsightly. And the pool! the water wasn’t circulating and I couldn’t get it going, and the bottom was a mass of dead wildlife ….

Obviously, phone calls had to be made! By mobile, only option. And we had to go shopping. Marthe (from the village) called, and gave some helpful advice, and we got stuck into the first major job, sorting the jumble in the carport into ‘keep’ ‘tip’ and ‘burn’ piles. Shannon did her bit of helping.

Day 6, Tuesday 4th April : With no phone (landline) or internet, we decided to head for Limoux and attend to some admin as well as getting online somewhere …. Well, the first and obvious choice was McDonald’s, and it turned out to be a happy one because while I did online jobs Shannon played happily in and around McD’s child-eating monster:

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That’s her, at the window, top left.

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Eventually it spits them out at the bottom – but they insist on going round again …

Now armed with details of places we needed to go, we went to Leclerc to buy some sandwiches etc. for lunch – you didn’t think we were going to eat at McD’s, did you? Visited the tax office and the prefecture, having already called at the insurance office, Groupama. The only real difficulty was manoeuvring Harry round Limoux’s narrow, one-way streets, but everyone in the offices was helpful and smiling, contrary to the impression we often have of French bureaucracy.

Back in Sonnac, and thanks to Marthe’s advice and information, we went to see the Mayor, who has a surgery on Tuesday evenings. This was very useful; not only was he able to give us his son’s mobile phone number (Pierre had done some garden maintenance for us before), but also tell us there would be a collection of ‘encombrants’ the next morning – and he made phone calls to see that they would call on us. I asked what time; he said ‘they start at eight – you’ve time to brush your teeth’.

So we went back to Sunejo and started moving the ‘tip’ pile from yesterday to the roadside outside the gate. Shannon really did help with this:thumbnail_IMG_20170404_183506

As well as helping to drag that big bag out, she was happily bringing smaller items to add to the growing accumulation at the gate:

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(Yes, that one’s out of focus, but it gives the idea of what was involved.)

I was a bit worried about this because my understanding of ‘encombrants’ was meaning cumbersome items too big to put in the ‘everyday’ skip or even in the boot of the average car. But the Mayor had said ‘put everything out – they’ll pick it up’.

Day 7. Weds. 5th And so they did – about 8.20 am, two nice men were at the gate with a truck, picking everything up, including a gas bottle which had been left by the previous owners! I asked if it was all right, and they said ‘put it in’. We’d been wondering about hiring a skip, but that is much less done in France – this is why! So we were lucky to have called at the Mayor’s office when we did, thanks to Marthe, and pleased to get rid of so much stuff so soon, though two or three days later might have been even better! During the day – or it may have been the next day – Pierre arrived and got stuck into ‘doing’ the garden, and the Molemen called too and set traps all around. Sorry, but it’s the only way.

Rachel was determined that a day should not pass without we got one of the major areas sorted – and I needed that sort of ‘encouragement’, so we attacked the loft, putting a lot of stuff across into the attic room, but some in bags to take to the tip ourselves, or to burn. There was no culinary exhibitionism this week; food was mainly toast, pate, cheese or a ready meal from Super U, with fruit and bought desserts as needed.

Also Rachel decided some of the items in the ‘keep’ pile needed hosing off and drying in the sun – the weather was much warmer now. Shannon decided the hose was great to play with:

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Oh – and a man arrived from Orange to fix the problem with the TV and internet – it was an external issue, and he replaced a whole length of the cable outside. We never did get the TV working, either french or English, but we did get phone and internet, which was a relief, and were able to see some UK TV online.

Day 8. Thursday 6th. We’d invited Trevor and Pam to join us for lunch, and perhaps to help with one of the major jobs. I put together a ‘cheats’ paella, but it went down well, and after that our visitors’ help was invaluable! While Trevor weighed in to clearing the shed – some of which hadn’t been touched since the last removal men put stuff in it four and a half years’ ago – Pam did an amazing stint of keeping Shannon happily playing in the spare bedroom, which we’d designated as a playroom.

Day 9. Friday 7th. I’ve no clear memory of this day! None of us was very well – a cough brought from England was being irritated by the constant dust, apart from anything else. I think we went shopping again, then began to attack the garage. Later we had a bonfire:

Fire!

It was a bit of a wrench to burn the companion seat from Garth View, but we had never ‘installed’ it at Sunejo, and it had deteriorated in the carport such that we thought it best to cremate it. …

Meanwhile Shannon thought the gates needed washing:

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Then there was time for a swing:

Well … it’s what Grandad’s are for!

Day 10. Sat 8th April 2017: Rachel had offered to take me out to a birthday lunch on the way to the airport, but I really didn’t feel like it – celebrate my return to Yorkshire, I said. But they had bought cards for me, and one had arrive from Christine, Carol and Judi, which was nice, and Chris and the children sent a video message. The morning was spent mainly packing up ready for R & SV to leave, and everything ran to time and smoothly, apart from a minor irritation at Carcassonne airport, when the computer at baggage drop-off wasn’t working! That sorted, eventually, we had a drink at the café, and I left once they went through security ….. Now it’s just me ….

One preliminary contract signed, one sale hits the buffers, Grandad’s taxi and minding service is much in demand and Shannon builds a tower …

… Not to mention a New-Year visit to Cumbria, which included two beautiful golden evenings with perfect reflections in Coniston Water (but sadly no photos – missing my  piccy-taker in the passenger seat, you know) and, of course, a day in Grasmere:

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But other visits to Cumbria have been less rewarding. Having put the flat in Murton View on the market, there was immediate interest, and an acceptable offer. However, the purchaser’s survey revealed serious, and expensive, work needed to underpin the conservatory and shore up the garden (where it drops steeply into the neighbouring field),

so she eventually withdrew rather than drop the price by £10,000, leaving me to get the work done before offering it for sale again. British Gas have been messing me about, too. Carol ‘invested’ £40,000 in that place;  I’ll be lucky if I get ten back …

Sunejo’s sale is going ahead slowly, though, and the preliminary contract  (the ‘compromis de vente’) was signed in my absence last week. I’ve booked the removal for Holy Week, and Rachel is thinking of coming down with Shannon the week before to do what they can to help. Niece Judi also offered help, but the dates didn’t fit. Thanks for a much appreciated offer, though. Pam and Trevor are keeping an eye on the house for me, which is helpful, and they’ve bought Lucy off me, which also helps.

The local G & S Society have not only asked me to join the committee, but asked me to be Chairman, too. Seems odd, since I’ve been around for less than a year, and in the end I didn’t take part in their annual performance, so they really don’t know me, nor whether I have any skills in chairmanship.

Both families have needed to call on taxi  and minding services from time to time, when a child has been off school or a Dad (Him, not me!) has needed ferrying somewhere or even taking to the doctor’s. I babysit for Shannon once a week anyway, but this week it was extended to a whole day as she was a bit unwell and Rachel needed to work. After breakfast yesterday Shannon asked if we could get the bricks out as she wanted to build a castle. Being of one mind, Rachel and I both began to sing “Build me a castle, build it up high -” Shannon gave us her best ‘don’t be silly’ look and said “We’re not building a pie!” It was a classic ‘gladly’ moment,  and if you don’t get that reference, just ask and I’ll know you’re there.

 

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A birthday, two returns to Grasmere and one to Coniston.

…and some traumatic dentistry ….

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July 15th was Shannon’s 3rd birthday, and there was a party the next day, being Saturday. A week earlier, however, I’d had all remaining bottom teeth extracted (only six!) and that has had a profound effect on just about everything ever since, as anyone who has had a similar experience might understand. Not to go in to too much detail, I’ve had considerable difficulty adjusting to the new dentures, and enjoyment of meals is very much reduced for now.

Is that why you don’t cook like you used to?

Yes, Harry, exactly, – it is. But never mind, it’s getting better, bit by bit.

Bite by bite?

No, that’s not what I said!

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Anyway, there’s another picture of birthday girl during her party.

On July 18th I had a further consultation with my “Hippy Man” (orthopedic consultant) and having received a communication from the oncologist, saying that she was happy for at least one hip replacement to go ahead before the cancer treatment, he agreed to proceed with that, hopefully sometime in September.

July 30th. Franky?

What? Oh, aye – that really slow trip up tut Lake District! That were a bad un!

Yes, it was, but we met with Chris and family in Bowness and they asked the staff at the pub they’d chosen about where an old man with reduced mobility but no blue badge might park, an they said to drive up to the bollards right outside, in spite of the double yellows and it would be OK. And it was. We had a good lunch, and I managed jacket potato with baked beans – but had to ‘lose’ the teeth part way through! Then we got lucky in finding a roadside space not far from the boat moorings so that we all enjoyed a cruise round the islands of Bowness Bay.

 

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After the cruise we went on to Grasmere – Helm Grag is in the centre of the photo, with the ‘lion’ clearly visible, but not the ‘lamb’ from this angle – and made our way down to the lakeside, though not by the ‘usual’ route because the lay-by was fully occupied. Chris and family then left for a tea-time visit to friends in Kendal, and Franky and I moved on to to Grasmere village where I was staying at the Red Lion. Last time I was there they were in the middle of renovations, and had offered me a free B & B for one night to compensate, so I was taking avantage of that. This time my room was at the front of the building with Dollywagon Pike (centre left overlooking the village) in the view: DSCN3610

Parking were difficult in Grasmere, weren’t it?

It were, aye. – It was, yes. No chance to park within or near the hotel grounds, so I had to leave you on the far side of the green. (The green is just visible above the red car in the photo.)

It were OK – I were bothered for thee and tekkin luggage across t’green.

I didn’t have much. I was disappointed by the reaction of the receptionist when I explained about my eating problem. He said he was sure I could find something suitable on the menu. Well, I couldn’t – not at a price I wanted to pay, anyway. So I made do with what I’d brought with me – a hard boiled egg and some potatoes and mayonaise. Breakfast was better – I was able to choose suitable items from the ‘full English’.

July 31st: I brought Franky round to the hotel car park to pick up the luggage,

Then we had a reet good drive round yon lake –

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Aye, up one side, and back down t’other.

Yes – Helvellyn is still scarred where the torrents came down and destroyed the road, but the views of Thirlmere are so much better than they used to be – they’re reducing the forest and replacing with more ‘natural’ species.

I had some soup at the Grasmere garden centre, and having left my folding chair in Harry, went on to Hayes in Ambleside to buy another, better, one, and doubling back to Grasmere to sit by the lake for a while. No photos – they’d look the same as previous ones!

The M6 was slow again on the way home, so I thought I’d drive the Trough of Bowland instead. I was following signs OK, but I must have missed one, and found I was back on the A6 and re-joining the motorway! But it was flowing better south of Lancaster, so we got home OK.

First week of August included a return to the dentist, who agreed there was a problem with the lower denture. She said the socket which had been infected was going to be a ‘slow healer’, but she filed the plate down a bit, which has made it a bit better. I also got a British MoT for Harry – not easy with his French plates, as they couldn’t find him ‘on the system’ until they entered his former (UK) registration. So they had to put UK plates on him, which I took off again when I got home! I’ve completed the paperwork to re-import him (with Rachel’s help), but it’s not straightforward. European standardisation, eh? I can’t insure him in the UK as I haven’t lived here for 12 months! Never mind the previous 67 years!! I picked up some new specs from Specsavers, too.

So Harry?

Ja?

Want to do a bit? – your fan club have been asking to hear from you – all one of ’em.

Dass ist aber nett! How nice! What can I say? You packed me up very slowly over several days and set off for Coniston on Monday –

8th August –

Ja, richtig – When we got to the Caravan Club site there were already Rachel with husband, daughter and stepdaughters. With also their Wohnwagen.

Caravan.

So you call it. They have reserved us a pitch nearby. So  – you park me up, and don’t move me for a week. Well, at least it wasn’t two months. And it wasn’t cooking hot*. In fact it was raining.

Not all the time!

Mostly.

Yes, well that’s Cumbria in August. You’re allowed one fine day per week. I was there six days, and I missed it. I decided to hire a car, if only to get around the camp site, but that meant getting to Kendal, and although the hire firm came for me, it still took out most of the day on Wednesday.

It was easier with Sally.

I know …..

On Thursday – the wettest day of the week – I drove over Wrynose and Hard Knott passes, taking Rachel’s friend Jane with me (and a little deaf dog). She was camped on the neighbouring site, Coniston Hall, which is where, many years ago, the whole camping / campervanning / motorhoming adventure began. Imagine! Me and a little 8 year old girl in a tiny 2-person ridge tent and a Citroën Dyane! Someone would call the police these days!

Anyway, there were no views on that outing, but the cascades were magnificent! We did Hard Knott both ways, with lunch (more soup!) at Dalegarth Station, but didn’t come back over Wrynose, choosing to follow the Duddon valley instead. Lots of white water.

Next day I took the family for a ride on the Lakeside and Haverthwaite Railway to visit the Aquarium at Lakeside – that is, they provided the transport and I treated them to the ride and the visit.

Shannon seemed to enjoy the train rides:

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Engine ‘Victor’ runs round the train to connect at the other end:DSCN3612

While steamship ‘Tern’ approaches to make the connection:

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Shanon watches, and Mummy photos ‘Victor’ bringing the train in to take us back:

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On Saturday I took the hired car back to Kendal (do American firms really close at 12 noon on Saturday till 9am Monday morning? Or is all that TV advertising just ‘Enterprising’ propaganda?), then used my bus pass to get a 555 to Grasmere to meet the family there. I tried to take some photos from the bus of views we can’t get from a car. Top deck would have been better, of course, and open-top on a fine day better still, but I wasn’t up for the stairs! Here are the Langdale Pikes across Windermere:

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I wanted to be in Grasmere that day – it was Carol’s birthday. Again, the garden centre was the most convenient place to park for lunch, but the soup didn’t appeal, so I managed a piece of fish, without chips. Thanks for that, family.

The weather wasn’t ideal, but we got down to the lake side – with more than usual difficulty in my case, and finding ‘my’ beaches occupied by fisher folk, we moved on to the spot where we had set up a base on July 9th last year, which was not inappropriate.

Shannon and Mummy do a ‘paddle dance’ while half-sister Becky prepares for another plunge into deeper water. (She stayed in for an hour!) I sat and watched, not feeling on top form  …..

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I’ve had a mild form of tinnitus for some time, but on Saturday morning something seemed to ‘move’ in my left ear with a sort of ‘twang’ which hurt a bit. That and discomfort from the teeth was partly why I just sat by the lake with my hood up. Since then, I’ve had ‘total face-ache’ on the left side affecting teeth, nose, ear, temple, eye and head. Also today, Tuesday, the symptoms of migraine. I’ve taken all the pain killers I can lay my hands on (I would have taken some of Carol’s left-over morphine if I had any here, but I haven’t, as far as I know, which is perhaps just as well.), so I saw a doctor at the local practice yesterday and he agreed with my suggestion that it was probably neuralgia. He added amitriptyline to the medicines I’m already taking, but it could take up to two weeks to take effect!

Anyway, I got Harry packed up on Sunday morning and completed the job by doing the ‘waterworks’ with Rachel and Sean’s help. The drive home was striaghtforward and uneventful, but I didn’t want to go on to Wakefield to park Harry up and bring Franky back. And I haven’t wanted to do that yesterday or today, either. Tomorrow I have a pre-op appointment at the hospital (though no date for an op yet!) and Chris is planning to join me afterwards to get the job done.

So – you plan to leave me bei Rachel again?

Yes – but you’re very useful there. You provide me with a bedroom without going upstairs. And there’s electricity for you, which I can’t provide here.

As you would say, M’sieur: hmmm ….

*Harry is remembering our time at Puivert in 2012, when we were on the one site for two months, two weeks and two days and he only moved once! And it was baking hot!

 

 

 

 

Franky goes to …. the capital.

Franky!

Yes, Boss?

What have you been doing for the last month?

Ee, eck – I don’t know! Seems tha left me wi t’babby at start on it.

Well, I didn’t leave you HOLDING the baby, did I?

No – tha pushed off in Big ‘Arry and disappeared for a few days.

Yes, we wrote that up already.

Next day tha took me back to t’dealers where tha got me from.

Yes, and that was a waste of time! They said there was nowt -nothing – wrong with you!

Well, there isn’t, is there?

So why do you keep ‘throbbing’ when we’re waiting to move off, and why doesn’t your radio come on when it should?

Ee, eck – I don’t know!

You keep saying that. Where next? 1st of June?

Oh, aye – that pointless trip to Manchester wi thi lad.

It wasn’t exactly pointless – we had a good lunch. Yes, we were auditioning together for a certain TV show –

And yer didn’t get on it.

Well, we don’t know yet, but, well, no probably not, so maybe that bit was a bit, sort of, pointless. Incidentally, so was trying to park at Oldham and go in on the tram. Not a hope! What about the next week, June 9th?

Ee, aye – that were a long un! Ovver the ‘ill to Sheffield, then all t’way down t’motorway to London. Motorway were all right, but after that ….

Yes, we’d arranged to meet family – Philip, Christine and Carol – for a meal before seeing ‘Showboat’ at the theatre in central London. The drive was very slow and tricky – but we got there, and found the car park, more or less on time.

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(More pictures – just search ‘Showboat’ New London Theatre. Or click on that photo and it will take you there.)

After the show we took the others back to Surbiton.

Aye – and next morning tha pushed off again and left me for a week on yon car park.

It’s a very nice nice car park. Harry’s been there often.

Where did tha get to, then?

Ah, well. Train to Southampton to get on a ship. Then a cruise to Guernsey, La Rochelle, Bilbao and La Coruña.

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(There are more photos – nothing very special cos the weather wasn’t so good – in an album on One Drive. If I haven’t shared it with you, just ask if you want to see it.)

Sounds like fun.

Hmm … might have been. Worth trying, but I’ll stick to travel in Harry, I think – if I can drive him after the hip replacement.

Back at Surbiton, more ‘shipboard’ entertainment with HMS Pinafore at the theatre in Kingston, performed by an all male cast!

Very entertaining, in spite of the strange concept!

Next day there was a barbecue on the lawn at Porton Court – weather held off the bad stuff just long enough! and on Sunday 17th we had lunch out followed by a return rubber or two / three at the home of Philip and Christine’s friend, Ena. Ena and I, while not calling the grand slam we made, still made enough of the good hands we had to take ‘revenge’ fo the total wipeout P & C inflicted on us a few months ago!

So to the drive home on Monday 18th. Uneventful.

I wouldn’t say that.

What would you say?

Dunno – not that.

Well, we did it with only one stop, which is unusual. Torrential rain to start with but sunshine to welcome us home.

Since then – one evening babysitting in Wakefield, several school runs –

They want to get that road fixed ! I could get hurt going up there!

I know. Several school runs, and one to A & E to pick up Chris & S. who had broken his collarbone. Sunday lunch at Linfield, and quite a bit of political excitement – if that sort of thing excites you! Oh – and a first visit to Meltham G & S group to rehearse ‘The Sorcerer’.

Next consultation at hospital on own behalf – July 18th.

That’s about it. BFN

Ta-ra!

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Grasmere Again (27.05.16)

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Hallo! Hier ist Harry …

(OK, Francophones! – That does n o t mean ‘Harry was yesterday’ or anything like that! Hier = here, so, Here’s Harry. OK?)

Danke, M’sieur SKT – do we call you M’sieur in England?

Whatever ….

As you see, Folk, I am once more in use! This is the campsite of the Caravan Club in Kendal. After many weeks at the home of the daughter of M’sieur SKT, where he comes to sit on the baby once a week –

Er, no, to BABYSIT – it’s not the same.

Well, he comes in the grey car who speaks funny, and sleeps in my bed – he now comes when no-one is there and leaves the car and takes me out!

Hold on! A couple of loose ends need tidying up.

What are ‘loose ends’?

Never mind. You had a problem with your water pump, didn’t you?

Oh, ja! The nice man came and put in a new one, sehr schön. Everything works well now.

And just let me tell folk that the bone scan showed no problems and that they are going to replace at least one hip before treating the cancer. Carry on ….

‘No problems’ is good, ….. the rest I don’t know. So … Thursday, 26th May we come to Kendal, and on Friday we first go shopping at Asda, then after lunch (for HIM) we go to the camping centre where another nice man replaces my broken door clip, then we go to see a friend who helps M’sieur move a bit more easily.

Yes, a visit to Mike who used to both play the piano for me and massage me in the driving school days – back pain is an occupational hazzard! Tickling the ivories and holistic massage is an interesting combination! But although, as we agreed, he couldn’t do anything about the hips, he certainly eased the muscles, which made the rest of the day more pleasant.

Then we drove past Kendal and through Windermere and Ambleside to the lay-by between Rydal Water and Grasmere. There he left me for and hour or so … 

Yes, I had a need to go down thru the ‘Tulgey Wood’:

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and sit beside the lake for a while.

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Just as I was preparing to leave, a ray of sunshine broke through the clouds and first tipped the trees with gold:

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then shone on the lake and and made it sparkle:

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We’ll leave it there …..

 

 

It’s difficult ….

It’s difficult to write an interesting diary when days are spent doing puzzles and watching TV …. unless it happens to be a hospital day ….

Such a day was April 9th. And it meant that my birthday was spent ‘fasting’ and taking quantities of ‘medicine’, necessitating staying close to a loo. Still it was lovely to have a visit from Chris and family after school, and thanks to everyone who sent or delivered cards:

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Thanks, too, to Michelle for transport to the hospital early on Saturday morning, and to Rachel and Shannon who retrieved me from there some hours later, and stayed with me overnight, on doctor’s orders, to make sure I didn’t drive or drink – alcohol, that is.

I was also not supposed to look after children unassisted. If this counts, we broke the rules:

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Rules or not, it was fun to have a bit of bathtime play!

On Sunday (10th) Sean came over to meet us at Lowdens, the caravan and motorhome centre just ten minutes away. I was invited to look over the caravan (!) they were planning to buy and (someone said) stop them from buying it! Grosse chance, mate! So we went and had a post-birthday lunch at the nearest pub. Before  leaving, they put my bike in the Mondeo and took it away when they went; it’s been ‘living’ at the foot of the stairs and there’s no immediate prospect of riding it, so I’ve regained the space, which will be needed if I get a stair lift fitted.

Today (Tuesday 13th) has been another hospital day! Two visits, actually, so two times £2.50 for the carpark! This was for a bone scan, to make sure the cancer hasn’t got into the bones, which would affect plans for hip replacement. Before the first visit, I actually did get on to the Radio 5 Live phone-in – too much excitement in one day! It was about driving and whether old folk should give up … you can probably find it on the iplayer if you really wanted too – just before 10 am. I might write about that on ‘Daddy Says ..’, but as far as I can tell, no-one’s looking at that, so it would just be for my own amusement ….

Oh, btw, I lied about the sun never shining on my doorstep. Well, not really, – surely it’s only a lie if you know what you say is untrue, otherwise it’s just a mistake. Fact is, I’d never s e e n the sun on the doorstep, but at about 4pm this afternoon it found a gap in the houses. The little daffodils are blooming:

Summer Time!

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Wow! There had been nothing in weather forecasts that I had seen or heard which had led me to anticipate t h a t when I came through to the kitchen at 6am this morning (Easter Monday, 28/03/16); big, heavy, ‘Christmassy’ snowflakes falling straight down. However, two hours later, after I’d taken my coffee back to bed and half slept and dreamt through the ‘Today’ programme which seemed to be being broadcast from a performance of ‘Patience’ in Penrith(?!), the snow at this level has turned to drizzle, though there’s a good covering on the Moor.

‘Summer Time’ started yesterday, of course, which was also Easter Day, a coincidence which can’t crop up all that often. I played ‘Father Easter’ to both families, popping down first to Linthwaite with choccy-thingies for the children, a little b-day pressy for Chris and a bottle of Vouvray for him and Michelle to share; then later on we went over to Sharlston with another sackful of goodies for big girls and a little one, not to mention more bottles for grown-ups, who provided a more than ample Easter Sunday lunch, or dinner as I think I’m supposed to say in Yorkshire ….

Aye, tha should – we don’t know this ‘lunch’ word round ere. Tha’ll stick out like a sore thumb if tha carries on talking funny. …

Thanks for that, Franky. Did you enjoy your wash last week?

Aye, ta very much; tha got round to it in th’end.

How about yesterday’s journeys?

They were OK; no hold-ups, but comin back ome were a bit tough, eh? Fust it chucked heavy rain at us, then we was goin straight west into bright sunlight, reflected ont wet roads.

Yes – a bit hard, that. No plans today (though as a fan of Rupert Davies as Maigret in the early sixties, I’m looking forward to seeing how Rowan Atkinson plays the part this evening), a house viewing tomorrow and a consultation with an oncologist on Thursday. That’s in Bradford, after babysitting in Sharlston on Wednesday evening.

 

Tough Drives!

Now then, Franky, lad – we’ve had a couple of difficult drives these last two days, eh?

Aye, we av an all.

Do you want to tell folk about them?

Aye, appen I could. Fust up, we ad to get from ome to Wharfedale, Bolton Abbey – it’s grand up yon! – but there’s no good way to get there, like, is there? It’s all stop, start, crawl, roundabouts, traffic lights – hardly any open road along whole o’ t’way.

You’re right – SatNav said an hour and a half to do 40 miles, so I allowed two hours, and we needed it! But we got there just on time to find Philip and family already installed in the ‘Devonshire Arms’, where we had a very tasty lunch. (No photos – again, if GPT wants to send some, I’ll add them – they should include Judi, who wasn’t there at the brunch on Monday.)

Aye, well; after that, we ad to get down to Wakefield in time for tea – but tha took us a long way round, like, eh?

I did, yes. Carol and I had done Wharfedale (Grassington) to Wakefield once before in Harry, and I’d said ‘never again!’ because the route was much the same as from Huddersfield. So we headed for Harrogate and Wetherby to get on the motorway. It was a nice scenic start, but slow through Harrogate.

Who’s Harry?

You know – my motorhome where I sleep when I’ve been babysitting in Wakefield.

Oh – im! E talks funny, dunt e?

Well, he’s French made and spent his first year in Germany. Why, anyway?

Well, tha went off in that little black car, wi thi lass an t’babby. So we had a chat, sort off.

What about?

Thee, mainly.

Oh, yes?

Aye, e says I’d best be careful, or tha’ll bash me up.

Did he, indeed. Anyway, yes – Rachel and I did go out to lunch yesterday (Thurs 17th) with Shannon. We went to the garden centre and I bought a little planted trough for my doorstep.

Aye – and tha’d best get it out from t’footwell where tha left it!

I know – I was tired.

Well, happen it needs fettlin’.

Fettlin?

Tekkin care of – looking after.

OK! What about the next drive?

Ee – that were a  bad un! Should’ve ad plenty time to get from Rachel’s to Chris’s, leaving at 4 o’clock.

(We were on taxi service to get N. to ‘Rainbows’)

BUT! Motorway signs said ’30 mins delay’, so we left motorway an followed the A62 – talk about    CRAWLIN’ !- it wor wuss than t’day before. Took till 6 o’clock, nearly! But we got little lass to  er club on time.

We did! “We got her to the church on time!” (“Wiv a little bit o luck!”)

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Family Brunch – and I buy a bed!

Friday 11 March 2016 , Philip, my brother, Christine and elder daughter, Carol, were travelling from Ashton Under Lyne to York and suggested they should stop somewhere near here for a late breakfast, or brunch.  I proposed Bolsher Moor Farm Shop & Cafe, close to the motorway. Rachel came over with Shannon and I picked Chris up on the way through Linthwaite –

Eh-up! What dost tha mean – tha picked im up? I picked im up!

That’s all we need! An interrupting, pedantic, Yorkshire car! OK … Franky and I picked Chris up in Linthwaite on the way, so we had a good family gathering:

DSCN3350aDSCN3351 A variety of breakfasts were enjoyed, then the party transferred to the Golgar Lily to enjoy a drink in quieter surroundings. Mind you, with a group of 7, six of whom could be called ‘Thompson by nature’ , ‘quiet’ is a relative concept – but at the ‘Lily’ there was no-one competing!

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[Others may have better, or different, photos – send them and I’ll add or substitute.]

Once those heading for York had moved on, we took Chris home, and then Rachel (and Shannon!) came with me to the BHF shop in Huddersfield to help me choose a bed – I’ve been sleeping on a guest bed on loan from Rachel, but it’s not really long enough, even for me! We also called at the Oxfam shop, where Rachel bought some clothes for Shannon and I bought a vegetable or casserole dish, and a room scenter.

Rachel decided to come back to the flat for tea; Shannon was sound asleep in the car when we got here – so we left her there, keeping an eye on her through the window till she moved!

What about my wash, then, Boss? – You promised me a wash!

No, I didn’t! – It was a ‘maybe’.

I’ll believe in that wash when I get it ….

HARRY COMES HOME

Sunejo, Thursday, March 27th 2014, 17.23:

Hallo, Lady Lucy!

Bonjour, Milord. How are you? 

Ich bin müde, tired – fatigué.

Ah – you have voyaged, er – travelled much?

1,000 miles in four days!

Miles? 

Er, 1,600 kilometres.

Oh, là! Racontez!

OK; Monday morning, we went into Wakefield to pick up HIS brother. –

Excusez-moi – whose brother?

HIS – M’sieur’s.

M’sieur S’s? Why you call HIM?

I’ve always called HIM ‘HIM’.

Well stop it, c’est peu gentil; how you say, not nice.

(Bossy as well as posh!) OK – I’ll use his initials; he likes that.  We went to pick up SKT’s brother outside the hotel where he’d been staying, then we headed for the A1 –

L’autoroute?

Mmm, no – in England ‘Autoroutes’ are ‘Motorways’, so they are M1, M2 etc. ‘A’ roads are main roads, like your Routes Nationales. So we made for the A1 because the M1 is covered with road works – ‘travaux’ – and slow moving traffic. On the way south, they filled up with turkey salad (which Florence had insisted they should take with them after providing lunch on Friday) and SKT filled me up with diesel at Tesco’s near Welwyn.

(I didn’t ‘fill up’ actually; I tried to judge how much we needed to get to Calais.)

The M25 was free-flowing (‘fluide’ en français) so the journey round London to Surbiton didn’t take too long and at Porton Court Philip’s car had been placed on the visitor’s space near the gate to ‘keep’ it for me:

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You can’t see it clearly, but that’s the first picture of my new skylight! (The big one above the hab. door.)

Once again the Thompsons resident at Porton Court knew how to give us a good end-of-stay – remember the trip on the river last time? A table had been booked at ‘The Grove’ and the meal was delicious, and British! The only drawback was that someone assured us it was only a short walk from Porton Court*; BOTH my hips objected to that! Yes, the left one has started playing up as well!

*Try saying “a short walk from Porton Court” out loud; then say it several times in front of a mirror – and try not to laugh!

But, SKT, you’ve driven me for most of  5,000 kms without once moving your leg by hand, so your right hip is better, isn’t it?

Yes, it is; but the consultant said to avoid long walks. But let’s not go on about whether or not the walk was long or short, the meal was excellent, and I didn’t ask anyone to fetch a car to go backwards after.

Hein? Il est fou, ce M’sieur S.!

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Tuesday 25th March: On the road at about 9.15 and a  fairly easy run to Dover, with one stop, and switching over to the M2 / A2 to drop directly onto the harbour and avoid the slow finish through Dover town. Easy check-in and on to a very lightly-loaded car deck. I understand they had a final taste of English food on board – Cumberland Sausage and Cornish Pasty were mentioned – so at Calais it was a quick exit onto the ‘autoroute’, but we pulled off at J 31 to fill up with diesel – SKT had judged very well how much to put in at Welwyn, as we were nearly empty! I met a ‘friend’ on the car park when SKT went into the Hypermarché:DSCN1054

We were there first – the other driver must have thought ‘If they can take four spaces, so can we!’ We stopped twice more on the way to Rouen, once at an ‘aire’ with a viewpoint over the Channel. –

LA MANCHE!

If you like:

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But it was cold:

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and the sculpture and display were all about wind, different names for winds and the noises they make:

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And the other stop was at the old favourite, Baie de Somme – cold, wet and windy, but good shopping and nice coffee and cookies! We found the good way round Rouen – under the white cliffs – and so got to Ymare, where Daniel lives, soon after 7pm. Daniel provided me with electricity and THEM – sorry! SK & CLT – with a nice meal. The electricity was important because of the food in my fridge and because it froze during the night.

The food froze?

No! Not the food! the weather, le temps, la température. 

Oh, pardon, je comprends maintenant.

Wednesday 26th March. Daniel had to leave for work before SK & CLT were ready, but that was OK as he had placed his car in front of me, so as to leave first. We left at 10 o’clock and stopped for elevenses –

For what?

Zweites Frühstück.

This doesn’t help.

Well, it’s very English, really; it’s a cup of tea or coffee or something that they drink halfway between breakfast and lunch.

C’est bizarre, ça! Elevenses …… 

Well, anyway, they stopped for coffee and pastries –

Ah! Café et viennoiseries! You should have said.

They stopped at the aire just beyond St Rémy, then an hour or so later, after joining the motorway north of Orléans, they had lunch at the Aire du Héron Cendré: DSCF2132

You see this sculpture as you pull in; SKT had to get out and have a fit of silliness. At Boismandé we found an adequate motorhome service point and let the grey water go, and we turned off the motorway at J31, just south of Limoges to fill up with diesel. Soon after that we were at Aire Porte de Corrèze and parked up for the night. SKT warmed up the Irish Stew kept in my ice-box since the visit to Florence (but taken out to thaw earlier in the day). Then he indulged in another fit of silliness – bananes flambées.

Why was this silliness, as you call?

Mensch! You didn’t see where the flames went!

(Fortunately, neither did Carol!)

We had driven 500 kms that day and were glad of a quiet night.

Thursday 27th March

This is not a bad view to wake up to – many a hotel guest has a less good one, or none at all!

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After breakfast (café-criossant), we decided to take the scenic route to the building, to use the facilities and browse the shop. Down past the little lake:

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Alongside the copse with the wood anemones in flower:

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Over the little bridge: And up the steps.

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One or two legs protested about this and to return to Harry we took the more direct, level route (round the car park).

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So on the road again – at 11.15! But only 350 kms to go so the late start didn’t matter much. Elevenses at Aire Jardin des Causses du Lot, even after 12 o’clock, and lunch at about 1.30. The first view of the Pyrenées was welcome but difficult to photograph as the white of the mountain-tops merged with the pale grey of the sky:

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  A stop in Mirepoix for a bit of shopping and here we are.

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We are indeed – well done, Harry! A round trip of 5331 kms (3331 miles), of which 3147 kms  (1966 miles) within England. That’s quite a lot of zig-zagging up and down the country! Sunejo was cold as we’d left the heat on anti-frost only, so we were very grateful to get a call from Nick and Carolyn Chez Maison Bleue with an invitation to supper. When we got back the house was noticeably warmer.

Two days later, while Carol was trying to deal with the 35-50 molehills which need to be removed before I can cut the grass, which in any case is too soggy to run the ‘tracteur’ over, we had another invitation, this one from Pam and Trevor who have found a property and signed the ‘Compromis de Vente’. So we went to their temporary home – the Gîte at Limbrassac – and enjoyed a scenic drive to view their home-to-be from the outside, followed by a lovely meal at the Gîte. Now we’ve lost another hour with the arrival of ‘summer’ time! That’s two ‘missing’ hours in one week! How time flies!

SHANNON VICTORIA MARYSE-COYLE. DEDICATION 23RD MARCH 2014

It’s difficult to know how to write this up – I think I’ll just put up the best of our pictures with the briefest of comments.

Godmother-to-be Cathy ‘Bird’ arrives at Oakleigh Close and takes charge of the baby, all dressed up and ready to go:

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At Destiny Church, Wakefield, prayers are offered for the family and supporting friends (Godmothers) Vik and Cathy:

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[Before this, there had been an outstanding moment when Shannon joined in the applause for herself! Unfortunately, neither Carol nor I managed to capture this in a photo! If anybody did, PLEASE sen a copy!}

The  opportunity was taken to formalise the Godmother – Goddaughter relationship between Rachel and Scout (Vik’s daughter), seated: the pastor charges Rachel to do all those things for Scout, that he’d just charged Vik and Cathy to do For Shannon!

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Rosie gets stuck into the refreshments!

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Or not, in fact – not really sure what’s happening there!

At the pub, Shannon gets served early. Lucky little lady – others had to wait a while ….

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Megan is a little over-faced by the size of her meal!

 

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Grandad is happy with a sherry:

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Later the Baby gets passed around:

To Paul:

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To Megan:

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And finally, back to Mummy:

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Postcards to Lucy 4th-20th March 2014

Hey, Harry!

Ja?

Why don’t you send Lucy a postcard or two?

Lady Lucy? Why should I do that?

Well, she might be lonely – you know what it’s like.

But she never talks to me; what language should I use?

Well, she is French, but I guess she’ll cope with English. Just add a few comments to some recent photos.

Na, gut.

Hallo, Lucy. This is me parked outside Chrys and Jan’s at Potter’s Bar, just after THEY paid for me to have a complete handwash on the car park at Tesco’s in Welwyn. Don’t I look white?

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While staying at Potters Bar, I took THEM to Baldock to visit Hilde, who had also invited Kathy to lunch. THEY gave me a fill up, too!

Monday 10th March: We moved on to Surbiton to stay with HIS brother and Sister-In-Law, though THEY sleep in (Niece) Carol’s flat, which is just across the corridor.

Next day, Brother Philip lent THEM his BRAND NEW car to go to Peckham to visit Vik, Scout and Rosie! He hadn’t even driven it himself except back from the dealer’s!

Many thanks to GPT for that, and a big plus to LV who added us both to the insurance with no fuss and a very modest fee. We had a lovely few hours with Vik, who, along with Scout and Rosie, enjoyed looking at photos of previous encounters:

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The stay at Surbiton finished with a meal at the Café Rouge with Philip and Carol Junior:

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Thursday 13th March: We moved down to Bransgore, near Christchurch. It was fine and warm when we arrived and THEY enjoyed a cup of tea and an Eccles Cake (you don’t know what that is, Lucy, eh?) in the sunshine:DSCF2016

That evening THEY went down to Mudeford to have Abendessen (tea / dinner / supper – evening meal; what you call it varies not only with how big a meal it is, but also where you are. Here in Yorkshire it’s always ‘tea’) with Martyn and Jasmine at the pub on the quay.

THEY’ve both been coughing too much since Huddersfield, and with sore throat and eyes as well HE got the bike off my back on Friday morning and went to see a doctor. HE came back with a prescription for antibiotics, and instructions to have steam inhalations first. It was a pity to be unwell because the weather was fine and I could have taken them somewhere nice if THEY’d felt like going out. THEY also changed the plans for next week so as not to get to Wakefield while still possibly infectious – baby, you know!

Saturday 15th March: This afternoon THEY went to see how the work was progressing at Martyn & Jasmine’s new house in Mudeford. …. It’s progressing, in spite of ongoing problems with planning permission. There was quite a nice sunset that evening – though you get better ones in Sonnac, occasionally.DSCN1001

Sunday 16th March: We moved north again and parked up at Poynton, but straight away went on to Stockport to have dinner (Cheshire!) with Daniel. Back at Poynton, the night was quiet till the geese started cackling!

The final choice, after debate, for the next two nights, was to visit Wharfedale and stay on the Club site near Grassington. That was a fairly easy move, and the location is beautiful. But the rain started overnight and this was the ‘view’ through my front window on Tuesday morning:

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Not much better through the side:DSCN1005

But I took them down to Skipton to visit Malcolm and Barbara Jones. HE and Malcolm go back many years as fellow Esperanto speakers (and actors). That evening they all went to a concert by a really international chamber orchestra. I sat in the car park and people seemed very happy as they came out afterwards. 

Wednesday 19th March:Much better weather today:

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Some people in a nearby caravan had set up a bird feeding station, which had attracted a big male pheasant in his ‘come-and-get-me’ colours and his lady friend, not to mention a pigeon:DSCN1008

We went down into Grassington and paid for two hours parking. In the village HE was playing the Grumpy Old Man:

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That is, until after visiting the nearby retail outlet:DSCF2021

THEY had lunch before leaving the car park – good views – then we shopped at Morrison’s in Skipton and set off for what should have been just over an hour’s drive to Sharlston – it took nearly two hours! An absolutely dreadful stop-start route round Bradford. Really hard work for HIM and me. Never again, we hope!

But we got there just in time for Carol to prepare a nice fish pie for TEA, while I entertained Shannon – or was it the other way round? Anyway here she is after breakfast this morning:

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HARRY’S BACK! (ON THE ROAD)

What happened to February? Not a lot, really. The weather remained very variable with only occasional days suitable for eating outdoors and although the grass is growing, there was no chance to cut it as the garden is more like a marsh than a lawn; final (we hope) visits were paid to hip and nose consultants and Carol continued to feed the hens at the Maison Bleue. Late in the month Pam and Trevor arrived to start house hunting and we we able to offer them breakfast on their first morning and next day we enjoyed lunch at the Gite they are renting for the next few months. Then Nick and Carolyn returned after their three and a half month absence and we prepared a meal for their first evening after travelling – and handed over responsibility for the hens. Oh, and Carol fell off her bike! It didn’t seem too serious at first, but after a week of ribs getting worse rather than better we went to see the doctor. As expected, he diagnosed bruised or maybe even cracked ribs for which there is no treatment other than time. We hoped the discomfort wouldn’t affect travelling and subsequent activities too much.   Here’s Harry:

Ja, hallo! I’ve been stood outside ‘Sunejo’ for a long time now, doing nothing except one trip to Carcassonne, and trying to set up a relationship with Lady Lucy, that new car, but she doesn’t say much, so I just watch traffic. However, things began to happen mid-month; I got taken to the big supermarket at Laroque D’Holmes and filled up with diesel. HE checked oil and tyres  and topped up the screen wash; then on Thursday Feb 20th SHE made up the bed and HE re-organised my garage. That day was quite fine and I think THEY had lunch on the terrace. There was a bit of a sunset, but nothing special:

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Not like this one from earlier in the month:

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More STUFF was brought out on Friday morning, when the weather had turned grey and drizzly, with a north wind which was stinging and cold, and finally, at about  12.30, which is late even for THEM, we got on the road, leaving Sunejo in the care of Lady Lucy; – and Nick and Carolyn.

Why ‘Lady’ Lucy?

Because she’s posh and doesn’t talk to me – not like Sally, who was cheeky but fun.

Hmmm ….

There were no snow-capped Pyrenees in sight to wave to or photograph – it was probably actually snowing up there – and the first stop was the Motorhome place in Pamiers; when Carol pulled the bike cover out of the shed THEY found the mice had nibbled it – one tear just got worse even before we’d gone very far, so we made a little detour to get a new one. After that, and a lunch break at the first toll station, it was brm-brm to the ‘usual’ service area just south of Limoges, arriving about 8.30 and THEY had a pre-cooked meal of duck legs in orange sauce. We did stop once on the way and a robin was perched in the bushes, watching the car park:

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Another late start on Saturday, and a long pause at J.37, not just for fuel, but for HER to buy some trainers, then onwards through the rain and the wind. No photos – the weather wasn’t helpful and THEY’ve photo’d most of the rivers and so on before. Finding the preferred route through Rouen without either going through the city centre, or following the long signed detour to the west, was a relief, so we parked at Bosc Mesnil services at about 7.45. not a favourite area, but it’s there in the right place.

Next morning THEY heard the shipping forecast; warnings of gales in all areas except Dover, Wight and Portland! Phew! We paused at Baie de Somme, as usual, and took the opportunity to charge the computer while checking e-mails. THEY let me get very short of fuel, but got to the supermarket near J. 31 just in time (not the same motorway as J. 37 near Limoges!) At Calais THEY had a quick lunch on the quayside and then we boarded the ferry. I was parked right at the front in the open air, which was good for a quick exit at Dover, but I got several showerings of salty water from the waves during the crossing. Could have done without that!

What is it about coffee these days? Even on the ferry that big firm with the high cost a coffee has taken over! I never know what to ask for, and none of it is worth the price. I asked for a small latte – it was huge; I got Carol an espresso – it was about a thimble-full! I should have settled for the Cognac on its own!

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The choppiness of the crossing – the least smooth we’ve had for some time, but it wasn’t a problem – is best seen on this picture of the waves as we came in to Dover harbour:

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After Dover we made good progress to the M25 and stopped at the services after the Dartford crossing.

We do like French food, but Steak and Ale Pie and Fish n Chips went down very well!

At least you two weren’t running on empty!

Nor were you!

Nearly ….. After that, we went on to the Caravan Club site at Welwyn Garden City, arriving just in time for the (theoretical) deadline of 8pm.

Monday 24th Feb: Water jobs in the morning before getting on the road and taking a wrong turning, so getting to the M1 by a cross-country route took longer than it should have, then the journey North was very slow, with long sections of road works and 50mph speed limits. But we got to Huddersfield in time for THEM to enjoy a meal with the family at their new home in Linthwaite. Later, we moved to the Manse in Golcar so that I could be parked round the back and get electricity from the garage.

 The removal from Golgar to Linthwaite – across the valley – was ongoing. Most of the big furniture had already been moved, but there was a lot of packing and transporting still to do. For the next two days it seemed best that we could help by taking the Grandchildren, S & N, out for the day. Meals in Harry were a treat and on day 1 we visited Castle Hill:

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An impressive site with lots of space and splendid views:

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Any doubts about the efficacy of the treatment to my hip should have been dispelled when I dealt with these steps:

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and that after driving Harry for most of four days without once needing to lift my right leg manually to get it to move from the gas to the brake (which I was doing before!). I even did some running around one day, chasing the children round the Chapel car park for a few minutes. So it is obviously greatly improved, but some days it  feels ‘heavy’ and a bit sore, so it’s not perfect! And in any case, the consultant says I should still avoid long walks, which is a bit of a pity.

We called at the garden centre on the way back, where N showed promise, again, as a photographer; how’s this for a four year old? –

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Not the fish! – the age of the child who took the photo!

Day 2 found us at Greenhead Park, a huge area with many attractions, of which the tower with its rope walk approach and slide off was the favourite:

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On Thursday (27th) Carol, Chris and I (and Harry) had a complete change of scene and activity. Before leaving home we’d heard the sad news that my Cousin Norman had died, aged 92. Norman and Marjorie had been part of my life forever and were regular visitors to various homes, including Garth View. So I was pleased to be nearby at the time of the funeral, which was in Leeds. The ceremony was wonderfully presented by the family themselves, with moving tributes from Chris (Norman’s son) and Paul (Grandson) and Louise (Granddaughter) while Martin (Grandson) introduced and led the service. It was good to see the family again, together with David (Sparkes) and Dottie, and we enjoyed tea and cake at Dyneley House where Norman lived for the last six years.

The next days – right through to Sunday morning – were spent clearing and cleaning the Manse and ferrying everything to Linthwaite. Harry was very useful –

Ho! Danke schön.

Non – c’est nous! You are French again, you know.

Wirklich? Ich hatte vergessen ….

Very useful, carrying stuff from one house to the other, some of which was too big to go into Chris & Michelle’s little car.

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That’s Harry outside the new home – the one with the fence. From the back of the house, which can be accessed down this ginnel:

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[A bit of architectural history; these terraces were originally back to back houses. Built on a steep hill the back house, with no road access, comprised the lower ground floor and the back part of the ground floor; the front house, opening on to the road, had the front of the ground floor and the whole of the first floor. Most of them have now been combined into single houses, but nos. 726 and 732 are still separate homes, hence the arrow to 726 above the ginnel, seen on the photo.]

….. there’s a splendid view across the valley to Golgar, seen both from the house’s windows and the little garden, from where the ground drops steeply to the river and the canal:

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The large, many-windowed building in the centre of the photo is Golgar Baptist Chapel, with the Manse hidden behind it:

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Carol worked stoically on the cleaning (she’s come away with a nasty cough, but the ribs seem better!) and the job was finally completed (I think) at about midday on Sunday, when Harry and the little Jazz took the final items, including the vacuum cleaners, round (not ‘across’!) to Linthwaite, after the family had taken a last look through the Manse to say goodbye to it, quite a ‘wrench’ for all of them, but we wish them well and feel they’ll soon settle into the new home.

We unloaded those final items then left for a special Pub Lunch at the Bulls Head (further up the hill!)

After that we said goodbye on the carpark and followed ‘Snooper’s directions to join the M1 near Sheffield. Harry?

That was dreadful! Not so much the cross-country route to the motorway, but the weather, the traffic and the road works from then on. We had plenty of time – in theory – to get to Welwyn, but once again we arrived on the last minute.  

Next morning – here’s a surprise – we were up at 6.30 and road ready, without breakfast, but having done water jobs, soon after 8.30. The reason was that we both had appointments at Specsavers in Welwyn with Carol first at 9. (We’ve been told that even if we have to pay everything, specs are still less expensive in the UK than in France.) We both need new ones and we expect them to be ready on our next return from Yorkshire in a few weeks’ time.

After that, we had time on our hands and looked for a full English breakfast. First we tried Tesco’s but we were disappointed as the café was one of those pretentious coffee places where the choice bewilders me and none of it is what I want. But we did some shopping and meanwhile Harry got a complete hand wash (for £20!) and he now looks brighter and whiter than since he joined us in 2010!

Ja! Wunderschön! Merveilleux! Brilbrile!

Coo – Esperanto as well! He must be happy.  We went on to South Mimms where we did get that breakfast. Yummies!

Was ist denn dass? What sort of language is that?

Me-talk. We still had time to spare, so we sat over coffee (in Harry) and did a puzzle. Then we came on to Chrys and Jan’s in Potters Bar. We had a lovely roast chicken dinner and today, apart from Carol getting her hair cut, we’ve just ‘chilled out’.

Here are some pictures to finish:

N looks out on the view after scrambled egg in Harry at the foot of Castle Hill:

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Grandad doing what Grandads do:

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And two key players in the narrative; Carol and Harry:

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‘Key player’? Schlüsselspieler? Clé joueur? I don’t get it ……

SUNEJO CHRISTMAS

There’ll never be another Christmas like it! Because although Christmas does come once a year, Baby’s first Christmas comes once and once only, and we’ve been very privileged to have been part of it. Thanks to Sean, Rachel, Megan and Becky for travelling all this way to be with us – we think it wasn’t easy!

What follows is a few (?!) of the photos taken by anyone with a camera, accompanied by, I hope, the briefest of comments – if I can stop myself ‘going on’! (and on …)

First meal together, and a new game is invented; Grandad and Shannon play ‘Boum! Boum!’ Everybody gets the giggles!

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The game involves taking the wrapper from the baguette, making a ‘truncheon’ of it and batting the side of the high chair with it saying “Boum! Boum!”. And if once or twice Baby’s head or cheek, got in the way, well, ….Boum! Boum!

We played it many times, in fact a wrapper had to be preserved for the purpose, and it always got a smile and frequently a laugh.

The SKT tradition of the Christmas Eve pancake-fest at tea time was respected and seemed to be well received. No-one photoed it, though. I suppose they were too busy eating and I was too busy tossing ……

In France le Père Noël looks for slippers under the Christmas tree; we compromised with a couple of slipper-socks, but they worked!

ImageContrary to every forecast we had seen, Christmas day was sunny and warm. Some spent much of the morning on the terrace, where we also enjoyed the pre-lunch blanquette / apéro.DSCF1883As for Christmas lunch, I’ve never been better pleased with my efforts at turkey roasting. Using a French recipe which I’ve had for years but never used before, with chestnut stuffing (French) one end and sage and onion (English) the other, slow roasted on the rack over a good quantity of stock and well basted with butter, it came out looking good, and was moist and easy to carve:What a carve up

Carol’s Christmas pudding got flambé-d, of course:

flaming pudPresents were exchanged after lunch, and as anyone with experience would expect, Shannon’s interest was greater in crinkly wrappings than in the content of parcels. What we didn’t anticipate was that an empty green cracker would become a favourite for the rest of the week! Ignoring a whole chain of teething rings, she kept licking it! Well, no harm in an early start in eating your greens …Eat your greens2

Christmas Day tea was fairly traditional (English) with cake and candlelight. Rachel took some lovely pictures:

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Boxing Day brought the expected rain, but we ventured forth to see Carcassonne:Baby and grandad in drizzly Carcassonne

OK, bin there, done that. Did anyone buy a T-shirt?

We’d been watching the weather situation very carefully in order to try to choose the best day to visit Andorra. We did well. Fresh snow had fallen up there while it was raining here and in Carcassonne, but Friday was superbly blue and sunny. Rachel chose to stay at ‘home’ with baby, which was disappointing but probably sensible.

The rest of us piled into the big, black hired car – yes, GPT & Family, the same one you had! – and climbed up to the big snow:

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The ski slopes were very busy

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and after lunch – and the first bit of shopping – we found a lay-by where some silly play was possible:DSCF1900 DSCF1903 DSCN0875

Then, drive on for a cable car ride:

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In the last of the daylight, another shop-stop:

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Mean while, back at the ranch, Rachel took Shannon in the buggy down to the river:Baby on the bridgeCompare and contrast the next photo with the first one in the last posting – taken from the same spot!The Hers 27th Dec

Saturday was wet n orrible, but no matter; we had boyle deggs for breakfast – from our hens (sorry! Nick and Carolyn’s hens) – croque-monsieur for lunch and parmentier de dinde (left-over turkey made into a cottage pie  – turkey farmers pie? Matthews’Pie? – bootiful!) for dinner. We even introduced the family to Cluedo – to help the Coyles unwind ….. No photo.

And so to Carcassonne airport on Sunday (in two cars), where we had lunch in the restaurant, and thanks to a friendly waiter who is good at this, we have an excellent photo of (nearly) all of us:

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and Bye-Bye from Baby in a big hat:

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And an Au Revoir from Shannon:

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And its “Boum! Boum!” from her:

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And it’s “Boum! Boum!” from me – Boum! Boum!